 How I Forgave the Man Who Killed My Husband and 3 Children -
The Tai Ikomi Story
Is there room in my heart to forgive the man who killed my family in their prime? Does he deserve my love, my sympathy, or even my consideration? Are there some criteria he must meet before I bestow my forgiveness on him? These are the questions I asked...
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Have you tried to forgive but unable to?
Are you experiencing sadness due to other people’s faults?
Do you feel like you don’t even want to forgive
Are you constantly angry at the person who hurt you?
Do you ever wonder why God says to forgive those who hurt us?
Then you are not alone....
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These are questions that have been asked by everyone looking for answers about forgiveness.
This website is designed to offer help and enjoy your freedom from the pain of other’s people’s action.
Remember, to forgive is to be Free
MEASURE YOUR FORGIVENESS LEVEL
When I am offended:
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Do I bury it
and pretend as if it did not hurt me?
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Lie low,
waiting for the ripe moment to retaliate.
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Begin
immediately to think aggressively how to make my offenderS pay
for their action.
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Withhold my
support and kindness as before.
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I refuse to
allow the hurt to get to me. I refuse to be hurt easily.
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I recognize
that when others hurt me, I see it as part and parcel of human
existence.
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Because I have
been hurt, I feel like hurting someone else to make me feel
better.
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I turn my hurt
over to the Lord to heal me.
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I pray for my
offender.
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I throw a
self-pity party because I feel I am the object of assault or
attack from everyone.
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I transfer the
anger to people associated with my offender.
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I refuse to
have anything to do with them.
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I get upset
with I think about them.
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I am not happy
when I hear they are doing well.
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I refuse to
greet them when I see them.
This questionnaire can be used to measure your level of forgiveness on a general level. Remember, the first person that gets the benefits or rewards of forgiveness is the one who offers it. Forgiveness is its own reward.
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